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A Rant Against Unrealistic Diet Expectations

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By: , – Alicia Capetillo, Editor at SparkPeople
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Spark: No, I Really Don't Care What Cher Eats for Lunch
 

There's a trend that's been popping up all over the internet the last few months and, before you ask, no, it has nothing to do with using the weirdest item in your home to apply makeup. No, this trend is worse because it simplifies a complicated issue by trying to make us think, "Celebrities: they're just like me!" But, I mean, they're not.
 
As editor of SparkPeople, I make it my mission to stay on the up-and-up with the latest and greatest in health, fitness and nutrition. To keep up, I follow several outlets on social media. A few months ago, I started to notice this framework, over and over and over again: "What [Insert Popular Celebrity Who Probably Has a Bangin' Bod] Eats in a Day." A quick search and you can get an intimate look into the breakfast, lunch and dinner plates of everyone from Nicole Kidman, Shay Mitchell and Cher to Misty Copeland, Gigi Hadid and Wonder Woman herself. Also, the Queen. Oh, and the Kardashians, obviously.
 
Now, I understand the intrigue angle. These days, access to celebrities is unparalleled. Fans eat up as many workout, baby, vacation, behind-the-scenes set, shopping photos as they can, so why should their diet be any different? The trend to disclose the "everyday diet" of celebrities is problematic, though, because at its core it is implying, "Eat like this and you could look like her or him! Wouldn't that be great?" In a single week back a few months ago, I noted four "What I Eat in a Day" articles. With so much conflicting nutrition information out there, the last thing we need muddying up the waters is a one-day food plan that works for a specific celebrity whose personal lifestyle and nutrition requirements are otherwise unknown.
 
First rant: Is this a Nickelodeon cartoon? Does every celebrity have a closet filled with the same outfit to wear every single day? I know it's meant to be a snapshot of their diet, but the idea that people would eat the same thing every day is absurd. Some weeks you meal plan, other weeks you get a flat tire on your way to work and then you have a stressful meeting with your boss and miss lunch and by the time you get home the only thing you can think about is diving headfirst into whatever chocolate treat you can find. That's life.
 
Furthermore, many celebrities have the luxury of having personal chefs at home or at the very least a nutritionist who has advised them on how and what to eat to reach their personal health goals (not to mention personal trainers and boutique studios) two points that are absent in most of these articles. If I had the cash to hire a chef to cook in my tiny apartment kitchen, you can bet my abs would be popping, too. Sadly, I don't, so I have to consciously make the time and have the energy to create healthy dishes myself before that box of Cheez-Its in the pantry starts calling my name. So much of healthy living is about having the mental toughness to recommit to the decision to be healthy every single day, every single hour. It's sometimes saying no to the office donuts and opting for a piece of fruit as a snack, or deciding to run to the grocery store to get salad ingredients instead of pulling out that takeout menu. When the decision is taken out of your hands, courtesy of an assistant or a chef, sticking to a healthy diet gets a little easier.
 
That's not to say that these same celebrities aren't worth admiring for their grit and commitment to their profession. I'm a huge fangirl in a lot of aspects and I'm regularly impressed by Instagrams of stars knocking out pushups and pullups (I see you, Shay Mitchell!), showing off biceps courtesy of CrossFit or committing to getting strong and healthy for an empowering role. Keeping up with Hollywood standards of beauty and health is no easy feat and I'm sure I couldn't keep up with the rigorous training and nutrition schedules as gracefully as some of these ladies.

When I started writing this blog post, it was because of a single interview I saw on SELF titled "This is Exactly What Gigi Hadid Eats In A Day." The topic was Gigi Hadid, the bona fide super star model with abs I envy and a "cool girl" charm that makes you think she'd be a great friend to have offering advice while you try on 100 things in the dressing room. In the article—which also quotes a Harper's Bazaar article—they discuss how Hadid will "often grab a burger for lunch" and "admitted to having a soft spot for cereals like Lucky Charms and Froot Loops," which is great, except that's not exactly how it was before she was a household name. A 2014 episode of "The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills," showed Gigi and her mother Yolanda slicing a super small sliver of graduation cake to eat. The episode rubbed a lot of people the wrong way due to the way the two dissected just how tiny they could make the piece of cake to get a taste.
 
It is well-known that Hadid is dedicated to training, including vigorous boxing workouts, so her body is well-earned, but reading the article felt like an oversimplification of what it takes to get healthy. Yes, eating the occasional burger or bowl of Lucky Charms is cool. This life is about moderation and the simple joys of sometimes chowing down on a brownie. "What I Ate in a Day" articles take a complicated, sometimes frustrating journey and turn it into a fluffy piece that is ignorant of individuals who are consciously working against cravings and making hour-by-hour decisions in the interest of their future health. So the next time you read that so-and-so celebrity really loves pizza, but balances it out with organic salmon caught daily by their in-home fisher in the stream that runs along their 140-acre property, take it as entertainment and get back to working toward your goals here in the real world.

Shop: You'll Wonder How You Lived Without This Travel Essential 
 

Are you the kind of person who really loves to-do lists? Do you get giddy at the idea of a perfectly organized sock drawer? Have you ever uttered the phrase "A place for everything and everything in its place" after tidying up? Does the thought of a suitcase in disarray send shivers down your spine? If you answered an emphatic "Yes!" to any of those questions, then, boy, have I got a type-A product for you.
 
A few years ago, my boyfriend and I decided to throw caution to the wind and embark on a backpacking journey through South America. As rookie backpackers and first-time vagabonds, we found ourselves getting a quick education on the importance of practical travel gear in the months leading up to our departure date. Microfiber towels, versatile layering pieces and multifunctional backpacks were all must-buys. It was at one of our many shopping trips to our locally owned outdoor gear retailers, though, where I fell in love with packing cubes for the first time.
 
Photo courtesy of Amazon.

For the unfamiliar, packing cubes are exactly what they sound like: mesh and nylon squares that come in a range of sizes and can be zipped closed after tucking your shirts, pants, pajamas, socks and underthings inside. The concept of trying to cram months' worth of clothing items into a backpack is no easy feat and the logistics of how I would get to my t-shirts or shoes without completely destroying my neatly packed shorts and toiletries had been haunting me for months. Packing cubes saved me from freaking out back then and continue to keep me cool, calm and collected on every trip I take these days.
 
Now, before I leave for a trip, I lay out the clothes I plan to bring next to my packing cube, fold, roll and place the item inside the cube. Always one for overpacking, I typically use the largest cube for t-shirts and dresses and can fit roughly two columns, six rows of apparel using the rolling method, for a grand total of 12 pieces of clothing. Oftentimes, I'll lay an undershirt or a light jacket right on top before sealing it up and throwing it into my suitcase. Being responsible for squeezing just three items into your bag—as opposed to maneuvering, folding, refolding, tearing your hair out, re-maneuvering—will save you from frustration and pre-trip packing breakdowns.
 
Not only is the space-saving bananas, but my favorite result of using packing cubes is that you always know exactly where everything is, making unpacking and repacking your bag so ridiculously easy. Rather than sorting through a bunch of items jam-packed into your suitcase, you can just grab the cube you need, pull out an item, rezip and toss it back in. No accidentally unfolding and having to refold clothes, no digging to the bottom of the bag to find that shirt you need. Plus, if you're really on top of your agenda, you can pack outfits instead of having "drawers" like I prefer. If you know you'll be active during the day and more dressed up at night, pack activewear in one cube and your going-out-to-dinner gear in another.
 
The cubes elicited the envy of fellow backpackers in hostels all over South America back then and I have since introduced friends and family to the genius that is packing cubes. Each and every one has been so pleased that they promised to name their first born after me.
 
Thank me later.

Do articles about celebrity diets grind your gears? Do you find them motivational or unattainable? 


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Comments

  • 93
    I need to see a video of someone filling their packing cubes. - 11/3/2017   11:36:18 PM
  • 92
    love this - 10/30/2017   10:38:00 AM
  • 91
    good article - 9/8/2017   12:48:01 AM
  • 90
    Not only do I not like the idea of celebrity diets, I don't really even like it when ordinary people tell me what to eat because my pet peeve is unsolicited diet advice. You know like when you're having a perfectly good salad mixed with protein and you decide to do something crazy like put dressing on it. And the dressing is within your calorie budget for the day. But some well meaning friend, who has never had an issue with her weight says, you should try just using vinegar and oil. And you want to tell her she should eat with her mouth CLOSED. (Just sayin...) - 9/1/2017   10:42:08 AM
  • 89
    what did packing cubes have to do about unrealistic diet expectations? - 8/30/2017   6:15:48 PM
  • 88
    Good article. - 8/27/2017   3:16:28 PM
  • CHRISTOPHER63
    87
    I enjoyed the article - 8/27/2017   1:34:57 AM
  • 86
    Thanks for an interesting article - 8/27/2017   1:21:07 AM
  • 85
    nice - 8/25/2017   3:58:06 PM
  • 84
    Thanks for this! I don't consider myself a follower of what celebs do, but it is interesting to read. - 8/22/2017   8:39:15 PM
  • BONDMANUS2002
    83
    good stuff - 8/22/2017   4:18:00 PM
  • BONDMANUS2002
    82
    good stuff - 8/22/2017   4:17:59 PM
  • 81
    Great article
    - 8/18/2017   11:42:27 AM
  • 80
    This is a great article. - 8/9/2017   12:45:12 AM
  • 79
    Great article - 8/6/2017   8:58:40 AM
  • 78
    It started off as a really good story that was helping me with being realistic about my eating. Another story came up and it didn't relate to the first. But I like what was said about diet expectations. Thanks - 8/4/2017   11:13:05 PM
  • SPUNOUTMOM
    77
    This was a weird article. I am with so many that wondered what packing cubes had to do with what the title of article was. I don't get how they work, the packing cubes. They look like suitcases not cubes.
    Celebrity need to merchandise themselves to keep in public eye. So what is published and what is real can be 2 different things. Or several different things - 8/4/2017   8:09:28 PM
  • 76
    As has been said...not sure why the packing info is in the diet blog...but good info... - 8/1/2017   12:30:31 PM
  • 75
    I think this could be true. When I see what my young niece's are going through to meet diet expectations, I feel for them. It really shouldn't be that hard. - 8/1/2017   1:03:52 AM
  • KATHRYNGC
    74
    The celebrities also are paying mega bucks for personal trainers to keep after them and cooks to prepare the right meals. Does anyone still pack crazy anymore than travel? Cubes? its looks like just a soft sided suitcase. Marketing? Just call it something else to get people to buy it. - 7/30/2017   4:35:50 PM
  • 73
    Be obscure clearly.
    - E. B. White - 7/29/2017   4:00:35 PM
  • 72
    Interesting way of traveling and it sounds like it really works. I travel in a camper so the packing is different but the same. As far as the celebrities and their eating, what works for them doesn't work for everyone else. Find your focus area and go with it. DIETS don't work. Healthy eating does. - 7/29/2017   1:42:00 PM
  • GRATISHORE
    71
    Maybe this should have been in two separate features? Well, I'm just interested in the first part anyway, but I'm *very* interested in some of the issues, even though I'm not sure if I understand what the problems are.

    People do strange things, always have, always will, with and without celebrities' diet snapshots.

    Meal planning is to be prepared for events, including stocking up on things that are so good that you don't have to turn to chocolate. It can also be smart to not buy Cheez-Its if you often hear its siren song.

    Not having a nutritionist and a chef is just a lame excuse - cooking a simple, healthy meal doesn't take much time or knowledge or mental effort. Youtube has lots of exercise videos for free. You get out what you put in. You don't have to think about being healthy all the time - it doesn't sound healthy, and if you are doing that, I can understand the need to rant.

    How our food environment has become, is worth a rant though. I can't believe donuts and candy is offered for free at people's workplace?! - 7/29/2017   11:27:28 AM
  • 70
    Hum this is NOT new. Everyone "THINKS" that if they could just follow their favorite star that they too could look just like them. They do not realuze that it is hard work. I like sparpeople, I plann my food before I actually make it. It is very hard work but persistently being good will get you to end result. Hard work and dedication. But what in the heck has packing anything go to do with it????? - 7/28/2017   10:58:43 PM
  • 69
    What's cubes got to do, got to do with it.
    What's cubes, but an unrelated section.
    What's cubes, got to do, got to do with it.
    Who needs to pack for celebrity section? - 7/28/2017   7:41:18 PM
  • 68
    This is not new. It's not a trend. This has literally existed since movie stars have. Magazines in the 1920's were filled with diet tips and "what does *insert name of star* eat to keep her figure?" What I would say is new is the popularity of what male stars do to get "fit," for example the Marvel Studios men. But of course, we're far more open about men having eating disorders these days. So, make of it what you will.

    - 7/28/2017   11:08:52 AM
  • 67
    thank you
    - 7/26/2017   1:01:22 AM
  • SUSANBEAMON
    66
    How do you backpack with a suitcase? I can see the cubes if you are traveling, but not in a backpack. - 7/18/2017   1:11:37 AM
  • 65
    If we all had the same resources it might look differently for everyone. - 7/17/2017   11:31:11 AM
  • 64
    I doubt that any of the "what xyz" eats during the day is real. Just go Google "How Princess Kate stay (so) thin" and you'll get over a million hits. None of them show Kate exercising or with food, none of them cities a real source just something like "a good friend" or "a royal insider".
    I don't know why so many people set store in what celebrities allegedly eat or do for exercise. - 7/16/2017   8:04:12 AM
  • 63
    Interesting! - 7/13/2017   6:06:52 PM
  • 62
    Know that the darkest night is often
    the bridge to the brightest tomorrow.
    - Jonathan Lockwood Huie - 7/12/2017   1:44:36 AM
  • 61
    great article - 7/12/2017   12:02:35 AM
  • 60
    In 6 million years, I could not give a flying care about what any celebrity does or doesn't do, eats or doesn't eat, or anything else related to them! They do not live in my reality--and I do not live in theirs. Who cares???! - 7/11/2017   7:24:14 PM
  • 59
    Great information! - 7/11/2017   7:11:49 PM
  • 58
    Good article, thanks! - 7/11/2017   6:32:28 PM
  • 57
    Thank you. - 7/11/2017   4:49:03 PM
  • 56
    I may not understand the article's abrupt switch from celebrities to packing cubes, but let's talk about the important part. Packing cubes! Ha! Anything that helps organize my stuff, pack with a purpose, and expedites unpacking...yes please. When it's time to head home, I throw all the dirty clothes in the largest cube...which goes right to the laundry room. Mine were purchased on line, yet I have seen them at Marshalls and TJ Maxx as well. Forget the celebs, if you travel often...buy the cubes! - 7/11/2017   7:06:03 AM
  • 55
    I am different from everyone else and so my weight loss plan needs to be based on my lifestyle and needs not anyone else. - 7/11/2017   6:41:09 AM
  • 54
    Good points - 7/11/2017   2:07:31 AM
  • 53
    nice - 7/10/2017   11:48:56 PM
  • 52
    Very well done! I agree with the info. - 7/10/2017   11:48:42 PM
  • 51
    I totally agree. Well written! - 7/10/2017   6:36:53 PM
  • GREYTDOLPHIN
    50
    Thanks for the new article. I get tired of reading the same articles over and over. I don't care if 2 subjects are combined, just enjoyed something new. And thanks for the packing tips. - 7/10/2017   5:56:24 PM
  • 49
    I guess the point here is DON'T pack it ON like the celebrities do in terms of weight and what they eat.{ I ALWAYS thought celebrities should be ABLE to look their best due to the cost of chefs,personal trainers, and all with all the $$$ they make, that they can afford. Realistically, they ARE just like anybody else and have to watch what they eat AND exercise daily! KUDOS to those that DO exercise and eat right! And the flip side with the suitcases~PACK IT IN only in the suitcases,eh????~Not on ourselves.~ I guess that is why the juxtaposition of the two articles. Yes, juxtaposition is a word~ It means putting two things together for a contrast! - 7/10/2017   4:59:32 PM
  • 48
    Hmmm...I don't get this article? Is it two articles? How did it end in packing cubes to click on and try to get us to buy? - 7/10/2017   3:53:58 PM
  • 47
    Thank you, very interesting - 7/10/2017   2:57:23 PM
  • 46
    Who are these "celebrities" and what do packing cubes have to do with it? - 7/10/2017   12:12:57 PM
  • 45
    Were these two halves of one article? To me they seem completely unrelated. - 7/10/2017   12:06:05 PM
  • 44
    I agree with an earlier comment that I found the juxtaposition of celebrity diets and packing cubes weird although both halves of the article are interesting. I must say, that my primary reaction when I read those celebrity diet articles while waiting for a prescription at the pharmacists is to laugh heartily. Many of the meal plans are so incredibly sparse that a normal person would lose their minds within 12 hours.

    There are two takeaways that are very important from this article, besides the packing cubes, of course. :-) First, we all need to remember that for celebrities looking good is integral to their job. This is what they spend their time on, what they are expected to do, and what keeps them working. This simply is not the case for the rest of us. Secondly, I copied this quote down, because I think it's so good: "So much of healthy living is about having the mental toughness to recommit to the decision to be healthy every single day, every single hour." - 7/10/2017   11:54:47 AM

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