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Introduction Text I am southern through and through, from my love of good ole country cooking to celebrating all special events with special food! I've raised four wonderful children and it's still quite a shock when I realize they don't need me much anymore. I am a total caregiver, I was totally involved in all 4 of my childrens lives and watching them leave one by one to declare their own independance seems to break off a piece of my heart each time. I am in the process of figuring out who I am now that my mothering services aren't needed. My husband is a workaholic, always has been, always will be. we are really good friends but he doesn't fill the empty spots my soul needs. Where did Debbie go? Who is this chubby old woman in the mirrior? Is this what happens when the children don't need you anymore? I need to try to find my way back to a time when I laughed, had fun, did things that made me happy. I just need to figure out how to do it alone.

REINVENT MYSELF, IT'S NOT TO LATE. i WOKE UP THIS MORNING, I GOT OUT OF BED AND BEGAN MY DAY, THERE'S STILL HOPE. My first child was born when I was 17. I gave birth to my last child at the age of 34. There have been chidren in my home most of my adult life.

Read and research healthy living. Learn new skills that will interest me. Get to know me, the new me, 'm pretty much on my own.

Married to a very nice man who loves his work. Four children, 3 grandchildren and 1 great grandchild. My life has been shaped by my family, I need to figure out a life of my own!

Each day is a new beginning. A clean slate. Start each day with a smile in your heart. Share your heart with others until you have spread smiles all over the place!

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