Sunday, April 22, 2012
The weekends fly by way too fast. Hubby and I had all of these plans of getting so much done at home this weekend and it didn't happen. LOL.
Yesterday we spent the day at my MIL's so we got nothing done at home then.
Today we slept in which we both needed as we are both worn out but it does eat into our free time. We had to get up and fix breakfast and lunch as our son had to work. Hubby cleaned the pet cages. Reek wanted a lot of attention so hubby messed with him. I gave them all their hair ball treatment.
It was cold today and cloudy and sprinkled off and on. It wasn't much fun to be outside. We are expecting a cold night so we had to cover all our plants with floating ground cover and more the transplants back into the green house.
Today is the day that my maternal grandfather, paternal grandmother, and my MIL died. The last few days I've been having a lot of dreams about my maternal grandma. She and I were very close. I seldom remember dreams. I have weird ones. In one dream, my grandmother is sick and I am at her house. My husband is there and my aunt's husband who I could not stand. No one in the family could stand him, including my cousins. Only my aunt. My grandmother's house, which was always immaculate was in disrepair. The ceiling was caving in from water damage. My husband and uncle were trying to deal with that. I went into the bathroom and the tub was leaking and I was trying to figure out how to dry it up and also how to fix it. My grandma, who actually was not my grandma, was lying on the couch. I told her that I really wanted her to come up and stay with me as her home was not fit to live in at the time. I then woke up. In the second dream I am in a ICU unit. My grandmother is in a recliner by the bed. There are rings of water on the floor where paint cans have been taken up and left a ring. I tell the nurses that I want them to take good care of my grandma and 3 of them take turns gently slapping each other in the face. I demand that they stop. One apologizes and has a tear that runs down her face. I I am hugging my grandmother and she turns into a bird. It doesn't seem odd to me. She then turns into a cat and is very affectionate with me. I have this intense feeling of love going between me and the cat who is purring and rubbing on my face. I wake up. Very strange. Not sure what to make of these dreams.