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Sunday, May 13, 2012

Happy Mother's Day to all.
This is my ddil's first mother's day!! Some or most of you know that I became a grandmother this month. The dgdd is on this page and it is my son's first child! It is exciting.
In the mean time my married dd who has been tryingto have a baby for over 5 years, (will be married 6 years in July), got pregnant. Oh how happy the WHOLE family was for her.
Well the dr. did NOT hear a heart beat last week, she and her dh went to drs. again on Thurs. 5/10 and on 5/11 tested her blood. Well her hormones are dropping, her dh is a lab tech guy. So he does this at his work, and no heart beat. So the 2 have decided to do the miscarriage naturally. In God's time. Please pray as she still has not started to spot. She has 9 more work days 8 with students, she's a 2nd g teacher.
I am also praying that God will enable to get pregnant in His time and carry the child to term and prayerfully not 5 more years or more.
Thank you all for reading this blog. Thank you also for any of your prayers.
Here to mothers of live births and miscarriages because you are mother's too and it's so hard!
Thank you again.
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    I'm not sure why I am just seeing this blog, but my heart goes out to the family. I heard a similar story yesterday. You're all in our prayers. -bri
    3147 days ago
    Reading this a couple of weeks after your posting so don't know the outcome. I'm so sorry. Keeping your family in prayer as you mourn the loss of a little one.
    3155 days ago
    Praying for them all.

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    3160 days ago
    Oh, I just read this post, and it broke my heart for you and your family. Yes, I pray things will all work out peacefully, and there will be much comfort and hope. This life here on earth is such a struggle so much of the time. I am so looking forward to heaven.
    3167 days ago
    Barb, emoticon to you & Congratulations to your son and dil for their new baby!!
    At the same time I am sad for your dd who lost her baby. That is so sad. emoticon

    I know the pain as I have lost two boys at 7 months than carried my youngest full 9 months and gave birth to her. God's plan is best. As Drs said in the hospital the baby may have had brain damage through use of oxygen. That was more than a few years ago. I know God is in control. emoticon
    3167 days ago

    Comment edited on: 5/15/2012 11:51:21 AM
    Praying for your family.
    3167 days ago
    Barb - so sorry to hear about your daughter's loss. I will be praying for her. I lost a child at full term when I was 18 and I know how hard this is. I will praying for all of you.
    3168 days ago
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    3168 days ago
    lots and lots of prayers for her and your family too, Barb! I can't imagine the feelings you must have with your daughters right now! I am saddened for the one that lost her baby! still I pray!!!!
    3168 days ago

    Comment edited on: 5/17/2012 7:57:03 PM
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    we also have one daughter who has 3 lovely children and one daughter that unless God intervenes will never have any. Our prayers are with you.
    3168 days ago
    This is hard esp for her at this time.
    So sorry!

    3168 days ago
    Prayers to your family and hopes for a successful pregnancy in the future. I had thought about the fact that my daughter who just recently went through the same thing is in fact a mother now although our little one is not here to hug. . emoticon
    3168 days ago

    Very difficult, but they are approaching it well - allowing nature to take its course and giving themselves the time to prepare and grieve. They are in my thoughts.
    3168 days ago
    Praying for your DD that God will bless her with a child of her own...in His time as He knows best. I understand exactly how you and they feel as my younger daughter had two miscarriages last year. She probably will not be able to get pregnant again according to her doctor. But that is also in the hands of our Lord. Saying extra prayers for you and your family.
    Hope you had a wonderful Mother's Day.
    3169 days ago
    I'm so very sorry. I lost both my ovaries before I had children. It was devastating. But we made it through that time. We were able to adopt 2 beautiful boys and I am blessed to be their mom.
    3169 days ago
    That's so difficult. I lost a baby in November 2009, and the doc wanted us to wait several months to try again. We waited 2, I think, and I was pregnant by March 2010. I had my beautiful girl November 2011, 11 days after the one year anniversary of losing her sib.

    I hope they recover well, physically & emotionally. It hurts like crazy to get through the emotional part, but they are lucky to have people like you who care.

    I'll keep you all in my thoughts!
    3169 days ago
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