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Tuesday, September 26, 2017

Well where to start. I have 3 children. M is the oldest (girl) L middle (girl) and S youngest (son). Since my husbands passing I've felt like M has just really wanted to end our relationship. Yesterday she was up and talking about S riding his razor over the weekend with friends and was drinking. First of all I don't drink so I don't like to hear about it. At all. After she left I text my son and ask him not to do that because of safety. Well it started a war. They got into and in the end she sent him a text that said she was done with me and I was no longer her parent. Just theirs. I've felt like this has been coming for a long time. Actually before my husbands passing. S and L are workers. Hard workers. M thinks everything should be given to her. She's mad over the life insurance policy. She thought she was getting one whole policy herself but he changed it and split it between the three of them. What a mess. She called me cold hearted. I guess everyone goes thru this at one time or another but I lost my husband on 8-19-17 and the little man I sit with in 9-18-17. Now this.
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  • LYNNA
    I just want to say I am so sorry for your loss. I am so very sorry your daughter is so upset over money. Sometimes money just really doesn't matter. I pray she finds a way out of her anger and learns that she truly needs you.
    1212 days ago
  • DETERMINEDJANET
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    1218 days ago
  • TSHAWGER
    So very sorry your going thru this. Sending you prayers.
    1219 days ago
  • SABLENESS
    Deaths seem to bring out either the best or the worst in people. At this point, there's nothing you can do to make M happy besides pray for her. emoticon
    1219 days ago
  • CHRISSYWILSON80
    First off, I am sorry for your losses. It's hard to lose loved ones. I lost my mum to cancer 10-26-2015. As for them fighting over the insurance policy or what not, that is horrible. It shouldn't be about money, it should be about staying strong together as a family. My prayers for you during this hard time.
    1219 days ago
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