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So over it all

Monday, July 30, 2018

I am so over this crap. I mean really. over it!!! The kids dad called to talk to the kids. Fine. Ok. thats great...first time in 3 weeks. She then takes the phone to speak to me.....big mistake on my behalf. So in the midst of the conversation she says that she doesnt have any step kids and they are non existant to her. Someone tell me how someone could be so cruel. The kids didnt hear this.....but she didnt seem to care who heard it. I am asking me why I didnt get struck with a lightning bolt when I met my ex hubs and god send a message to RUN....RUN...Run. What a dummy I was. Then before I hung up she blamed me and my husband for turning the kids against her. Like ummm hello....did or did you not throw my 16 yr old bipolar kid on the street, no money, 4 outfits, no soap, no food. What in the heck is wrong with this person. And she says she's a Christian. Right. Ok. Satan won today.

My nerves are shot. I am sitting here and just like wow emotionally. I see the psychiatrist tomorrow with my son. He's seen her years ago when he lived here. So she knows him. I feel awful for the kids.

I wonder if she were to have my ex file a show cause if we could keep her away from the kids. Right now the order for my son is visitation w child approval which means he has to decide yes or no to the visit with Megan its different. They dont have a set agreement that says she can choose.

I will write more later..right now I'm going to have a cup of iced tea, take a hot shower, and try to relax. I am not a hateful person but this just baffles me. I dont know what to say about what she has said this evening.
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  • DEBTEVELDAHL
    Oh Jamie,

    I am so sorry that this is happening to you. I am bipolar, so I know what you are up against there. There is hope, sometimes medication and therapy can work wonders. This woman sounds like a very nasty woman. I would be so upset too. Megan and your son are what's important. You are so amazing. Don't listen to her and don't let her get to you. That's what she wants. Saying prayers and sending you positive energy and emoticon . Let me know if there is anything that I can do to help you. Take care and God bless, Deb emoticon
    357 days ago
  • 1CRAZYDOG
    Oh my goodness. HUGS and prayers. TOUGH!!!!!!
    357 days ago
  • RHOOK20047
    Sounds like you have to be the adult in this situation. People can be cruel, and sadly they are a fact of life. Consider the source and move on to make a good situation for your kids. They will realize who loves them.
    357 days ago
  • CAROL_31649731
    Gotta ya. Gonna delete that message from my sparkpage, too (so she can't find your new sparkname). It's a shame you have to go to such extreme measure, but you are right to do so. You can't let her win. You need peace of mind and less stress. We can communicate more by sparkmail, if you wish, which is certainly more private. My heart goes out to you, with everything you are going through.
    358 days ago
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  • NOCALORIES
    Put you and your kids first and God will give you the strength you need.
    358 days ago
  • GARDENCHRIS
    take a deep breath and don't give her that much power, she will only keep taking more. you do what is good for you and your kids and the H#LL with them.
    358 days ago
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