Well, I guess I just need to get something out - and say my peace. I tend to have a passive personality (Enneagram type 9), so sometimes I just keep my mouth shut - to my own detriment.
I was really disappointed and sad about something that happened here on Spark People. I am the team leader for the 40-something's with 10-24 lbs to lose. At one point I had 3 other co-leaders, but I am now the sole leader for the team.
I don't know exactly what happened, but one of my co-leaders said that I purposely removed them from being a co-leader.
I truly don't know how they were removed as co-leader - but I never, ever removed anyone from being a co-leader of the team.
I don't believe I even have the powers to remove someone as a leader or co-leader of a team? Don't you have to remove yourself?
Has anyone else run into this? I am honestly wondering if there is a sort of bug on the Spark People platform, or if something else happened.
It hurts to be wrongfully accused. It hurts that my co-leaders left without even addressing any of this with me. I sent out an email asking, "Where did you go?" - and that's when I found out they thought I had removed them.
I guess I just want to be heard and to say - this is not true and this is unfair to say that I would intentionally remove anyone from being a co-leader :-( I was really enjoying our little team and having a lot of fun making some new friendships.
In the end, I'm just happy to keep sparking. I'm happy to be a part of this community in whatever way that I can. I plan to contact Spark People support so maybe they can help me find out what happened.
I want my co-leaders to know that I would never intentionally do that - and I wish they had contacted me to find out what happened before jumping to conclusions :-(
That's all. There ... I've spoken my truth.
I hope you all have a wonderful day and most of all ... Keep Sparking!
With love and light, Vespa from the 40-somethings with 10-24 lbs to lose.