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My biggest challenge is when I have a lot of pain. I have rheumatoid disease. I recently had to go off my biologic for 3 months and I ended up in severe pain. I'm back on my med, but it's going to take a few weeks for it to start working. When I have this much pain I turn to food for relief. It is emotional eating. I have learned there is a physical component to it. What I eat makes a difference. Some foods quell the pain more than others. I have gone off sweets so that's good, My portion control is a problem. I have to watch out how much I eat and how often. I don't eat animal fat because, of cholesterol. My food plan is the Mediterranean diet. I am now trying really hard not to overdo my eating while I have to tone down exercising. Exercising vigorously just causes pain to get worse, but it is not good when I am eating too much. I am counting calories now and see me sliding. I gained 8 lbs and it worries me. A little here and a little there means the weight piles up. Before I know it I have lost all the work I have done. Thank goodness for SparkPeople. I have found a really good CBT team. It's called Becks Diet. Cognitive Behavior Therapy is an excellent method that involved changing how you think. It is used for many kinds of challenges other than weight. It is a structured program. It depends on you to make a commitment, practice, and be patient while slow change occurs. I have been fortunate to have been to the Mayo Clinic for a three-week program that involved CBT. What a great experience and life-changing! I bought the book and workbook that goes along with it for the team. I am doing the exercises in the workbook. I have gained an immense amount of insight into myself. The hardest part is doing what I know is right. I know if I work the program, it will work for me. It's hard, but it's worth it.

About picky children. When my children were at home, no matter what age they were, I put my foot down at the dinner table. I did not give them a chance to eat something else. They ate what I cooked or went hungry until the next meal. There were no packaged snacks or candy in my house. This is the way I was raised and it was the law. There is such a thing as taking control of your kitchen. I believe children need to learn to cope with the word "no". With grocery stores and restaurants now offering high sweet, high salt, and very high calorie packaged foods and menu items it's no wonder this country has an epidemic of diabetes. It's now filtered down to children. It's alarming children being overweight, obese, and getting diabetes. I believe it's important for good lifestyles to start at home. We as parents need to take the lead and be a good example and teach our children, family members and friends what healthy lifestyle means. I am not perfect by any means. I have my weaknesses and challenges. I just don't give up. My motto is,

"NEVER GIVE UP!"



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Love life! Never, never give up! Never give in, never give in, never; never; never; never give in nothing, great or small, large or petty. Never give in except to convictions of honor and good sense-Winston Churchill. When you have a lemon, make lemonade! NEVER GIVE UP!!!


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6/9/20 9:41 A

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Lately my kids don't want to eat what I make. They are old enough to where they can make their own meals or go get something. I end up eating all the leftovers too. Gets boring. I like trying new recipes and they don't. Trying times.

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6/5/20 1:01 P

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My hardest challenge is food prep. My toddler doesn't allow for much controlled cooking to happen. He is such a picky eater and really doesn't verbalize what he wants or doesn't. So I fix something and he doesn't eat and I have to keep trying until I find what he wants. And then I end up eating what he didn't want. We are working on trying to tell momma what he wants but we are not there yet

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Portion control



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Eating right, bad habits and small children.

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eating right

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eating right and exercising-motivation

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Being active and getting my exercise in

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10/3/19 2:03 P

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My love for bread and chips



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Understand



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Bad habits :(



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Right now thanks to me being alone all the time literally like 95% of the time I'm alone, and stuck at home; I'm depressed a lot so food is my go to, and yet at the same time, thanks to me being a vegetarian and our current budget, I can't get a healthy balanced meal. And I really don't have a support system, friends or family...to work with or talk to.

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Kids, house, animals, garden, kids, kids....



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OMG...yes!!!!

The other day I was on the elliptical and my 3 year old walks in. "Mommy, can I have a hug?" Naturally I hopped off quick..."Of course, sweetie!" He turns his back and walks away. " Good. Now you come watch my show." WTH?!



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Kids being in the way and interrupting my workouts. LOL.

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lack of consistency and burn out from doing all the planning/tracking/portioning/etc.

Healthy choices and actions have positive impacts, even if the scale doesn't move!


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Depends on the day and my mood but recently started the Intermittent fasting 16/8. So cooking breakfast or a late dinner and not being able to eat with my family is a big challenge for me. Or preparing something for myself while my family indulges on the good food!



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It depends on the day. I'm an emotional eater so that leaves the door open for a multitude of difficulty.

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To not fall back into bad habits! Know how to stay at your weight after you worked so hard to get there!

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To be honest, it is a lack of self-control around sweets. I have zero control and it is ridiculous.

I also need to exercise more, which is limited by our family situation and my lack of energy at the end of the day (the only time of day I have opportunity).

Changes need to be made!



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My biggest challenge is cooking meals that everyone likes.



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Appropriate snacks



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just getting the weight to go down.



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5/23/18 11:47 A

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Snacking. I just can’t have a small snack, healthy or not.

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finding the time! It's hard to find the time to exercise with a new baby. I'll be heading back to work in a couple weeks. I'm worried about my eating habits and snacking.



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Snacking......typo



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Curious about your answer. What is 'snaking' ?

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I so completely relate to everything you said. I find it the most impactful to track my calories, so that's what I am focusing on right now. Also, it helps me to do random things to make myself "pretty" - hair, nails, new clothes, even a lotion. It brings me back to my body I guess, I just spend so much focus and energy on my daughter that I fail completely to prioritize anything related to myself and my health. Also, feel free to add me as a friend - I cannot figure out how to add you for some reason.



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Water consumption and making time for exercise with a small child. I have a very supportive partner but it is still daunting!

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Water consumption.

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@Happymom, I feel your pain. I was a full time working mom of two children. My son had a severe mental disorder, Asperger's. It's a form of Autism. I worked full time as a night nurse in pediatrics in order to be there for my son during the day. I struggled to find people to stay overnight while I worked. It was a whirlwind! I ate carbs, mostly to keep my energy up. Back then I wasn't very much overweight. But it caught up to me. Little by little I gained one pound then another. Until one day I was 186 lbs and 5'5"! My normal weight had always been 125 lbs. One day I looked in my closet to find something to wear and there wasn't one piece of clothing that fit me. I looked in the mirror at myself and cried. This was my personal bottom. I wasn't an over eater, that wasn't my normal. But I had gotten into the habit of eating ice cream and well, you know what I mean. To complicate things my health was failing. My back gave out and I suffered from severe pain. I was diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis, a life threatening disease requiring IV therapy every 8 weeks. Then I came down with Fibromyalgia. Fibro gave me such severe pain there were times I had a hard time breathing. The doctor told me I was too heavy for my frame, you know? Lol. I couldn't stay away from sweets! It lessened the pain. I became an emotional eater. It took me years to get a handle on my eating habits. That's when I found SparkPeople. SP taught me to eat, how to eat and the science of food. Ever since then I've been losing, little by little. Every year I've gone down a few pounds. It's nothing to brag about, but I'm 154 now.

My biggest challenge is getting off the couch to exercise. I'm fine once I start. It's the starting that's hard. I know some of you know what I mean. Eating carbs is no longer an issue for me. I do have a good handle on my eating habits and what kind of foods I eat. I'm back to my old young self. Thank goodness for that!

My advise being a full time working mom with children, is to do some mental acrobatics. You not achieve your goal by neglecting yourself. You will only make it harder for you later on. Sleep is good. It's a requirement for health. Find 10 min or so to take a power nap. Exercise is vital to your health. You will find it gives you energy and you will find yourself catching up on your sleep. Exercise is important, very very important. Take just 5 minutes out of your tired day and do something, anything you like. You can jump up and down with your kids if you like. I don't know how old your kids are, but exercising with kids is fun. Put away the thought you are too tired to take care of yourself. You have to train your mind to override your fatigue, you have to train your mind to be more powerful than you think you are. After 2 months of 5 min exercises I think you will be better shape not only physically, but mentally. The habit with be solid in your mind. It will be automatic. Set aside the same time every day for your 5 min workout. I think after a month you may feel a nagging voice to increase your time to 10 minutes a day. Make sure you don't overdo it. Small steps is the best way to achieve your goal.

Sparkguy, the owner and creator of SparkPeople has a forum here for small steps. Take a look at it and see if you like it.

It's called "Small Goals Commitment Challenge"

The forum's format is motivational, positive and inspiring.


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I hope I have helped you just a little,

Good luck and many blessings.

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Love life! Never, never give up! Never give in, never give in, never; never; never; never give in nothing, great or small, large or petty. Never give in except to convictions of honor and good sense-Winston Churchill. When you have a lemon, make lemonade! NEVER GIVE UP!!!


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Feeling full when done eating.

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Hello, my friends, struggling to reach a fitness or health goals is a dream for anyone of us. Last 3 months, my friend was suffering from overweight. She is a mom of 3 children and she is working for a long time. But she decided to go to nutrition doctor who helped her to lose weight in a healthy way. He advised her to follow balance diet and walk for one hour a day beside practicing Yoga. She followed this routine, especially gentle yoga. She lost 25 K.G in 2 months, what a great effort!. I want to advise you to follow your own routine and eating a balanced diet. Don’t forget to practice gentle yoga!! Good luck dear.



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My biggest challenge was to eat healthy and control my cravings. It was the most difficult part on my journey to weight loss. I referred various guide régime to maintain a healthy routine and I must say it helped me a lot. To know more you can browse around here :

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One: my husband keeping bad food in the house.
Two: I'm just barely getting started on my journey. So I'm still having bad cravings.
Three: I am having a hard time creating a VERY EASY menu plan.

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eating but not watching portion
not doing exercise regularly
stressing out a lot
taking care of small child taking most of my time
not allotting any free time for myself "me time"

"The principle is competing against yourself. It's about self-improvement, about being better than you were the day before."---Steve Young.

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I think my biggest challenge for weight loss comes with bad family eating habits. FOr instance, I have a husband who WANTS to lose weight but will not change any of his habits. So, he gets to eat whatever terrible thing he feels like eating and does this in front of me. It can be hard resist these foods when there is no one else who is resisting as well. It's like quitting smoking. It's really hard to quit when you have people around you who are smoking. However, I can say that I have been resisting and have lost 10 pounds in two weeks. My exercise has increased and I've been using SparkPeople to track and count my calories. Its terrifying to look at your favorite foods and see how many calories are in it. I use that as a big way to say NO!

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Getting frustrated and thinking "I'll get back on plan tomorrow." We all know, THAT particular tomorrow never comes.

OK, and I want immediate results! Seems like my clothes feel tight really quickly when I'm overeating, yet it takes 2-3 times as long to notice a positive change. UGH! emoticon

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There are definitely a lot of calories in alcoholic drinks, even "skinny margaritas." If you are adding several drinks to your normal calorie intake then it will impact your weight loss. If you are going to drink, maybe you could choose food that is lower in calories to compensate. or limit how many drinks you allow yourself to have per day.

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For me, it's the weekends. I tend to be really good about my eating during the week, and am diligent with meal prep, but not so much on weekends. Weekends, even though I tend to do a lot (housework, errands, working out, etc.), my time is very unstructured and I tend to hit the fridge too much. I don't know if it's boredom, or just that I don't take the time to plan my meals carefully.

I also tend to drink quite a lot more on weekends - two or three drinks Friday night, sometimes as many as four throughout the late afternoon/evening on Saturdays, and usually two on Sunday. During the week, I rarely drink. The drinking, combined with the frequent fridge visitation, means that I tend to consume a lot more calories on weekends.

I'm starting to think that maybe this is what's hindering my weight loss. I'm wondering if maybe I should consider experimenting and cutting my alcohol intake down to one drink per day on weekends to see if it makes a difference.

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Went on a mini vacation, left on Wed and came back Mon morning. I gained one pound while I was gone. I did avoid most of the temptations, however I didn't exercise much. LOL

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My biggest struggle is trying to help my son gain weight. He's trying to put on weight and muscle for football but he has a super fast metabolism. His stomach doesn't tolerate weight gainers very well so he's trying to accomplish it with food. As you can probably imagine that makes it challenging for me trying to loose weight when he is needing to carb load and take in tons of calories. It's a test of will power for me to avoid what he's eating.



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My daughter bought me some sugarless candy from Russel Stover. Chocolate covered caramels. They taste pretty good but I'm wondering if anyone has had a negative experience with sugar free candy?

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I was craving sweets so bad over the weekend I decided to have an ice cream cone. I felt so much better afterwards, I think if I allow myself a treat once a week it will be better to stick to my goals.

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Mine is fast food! Hubby and I both work in restaurants w/ odd hours and it's so hard to come home and make dinner when there's an in-n-out on the way home!!!



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My biggest challenge is sticking with it. Continue on the path of healthiness or not. I get bored with it I guess and I easily get discouraged if nothing is changing. emoticon



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I am trying to substitute fruit for sweets. I always want something sweet at the end of a meal so fruit is a better choice than peacan pie.

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food, all kinds of foods- sweets, chocolate, fries, burgers, pastries and pasta. oh my word, i love to eat and thats my biggest challenge. but i try to eat all in small quantities and not have any in the house.



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Why is it that when you say out loud I am going to stay away from sweets, you become a magnet for sweets from all kinds of unexpected places?

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6/29/16 10:38 A

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Motivation and sticking with it! It was easier when I had a friend to workout with a few years ago. Since then, I got a work-related back injury and getting back into a routine is quite difficult for myself. I was I had someone to even walk with, talking makes the time go faster for me.....

I can do this (for me), if I set my body, heart, mind and soul in the right direction...
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6/15/16 2:34 P

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HAPPYMUM100,
How are you doing? I know your pain, because I am also addicted to sweets.

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6/5/16 10:36 A

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I am now raising a granddaughter and find my weight going up because I have lost a lot of 'me time.' So I'm buying more premade food and finding myself snacking instead of eating healthy. Less time and money to go to pricey pilates studioes.

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6/3/16 7:26 P

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I can completely understand that! For so many years I worked so hard trying to lose weight and when it didn't happen I got so mad at myself but, I finally found a Dr that actually took the time to run blood work on me and I knew I had PCOS (Polycystic ovarian syndrome) but I never knew I was insulin resistant which basically meant all the carbs n sugar I ate turned right to fat. The Dr put me on metformin and I adjusted my diet a lot no junk food, soda, candy, potatoes , I do have some carbs but try to limit it to good carbs and of course no one can eat 0 sugar unless your a saint!! LOL but in a very short time I have lost 33 lbs and of course I started slowly exercising over time building up the steps I walked each day and added a new exercise each week and so far I feel so much better. A lot of my encouragement came from this Spark People site. Tracking my food and fitness and progress holds me accountable which I found that I really needed but it also helped me see what vitamins I am lacking and I started supplementing those in each day and my energy is up so much and I sleep better than I have in years. But the best thing I can tell you is keep doing what u are suppose to, eat better and exercise , I found that my fitness tracker (which is a cheap $20 model) has helped me more because I can look at it and I can see that I need to get off my butt and do more exercise for the day. I hadn't exercised in years I lived on my couch and I was miserable but, each day I made myself get up and walk , even if it was laps around the house , and each day I tried to add more steps than the day before. Maybe you should see your dr and see if u have a food that u are allergic to. You don't have to have a reaction to the food to be allergic. Some food slows down your digestive system, some food will make you swell up. If I had never had my blood work done I would still be sittin on the couch not doing anything different. You can do it just keep in mind why your doing it and don't feel like u have to see results instantly . Your body will have to adjust and once u figure out the right foods to avoid and the right exercises for you u won't want to stop!!! Good luck!!!



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6/2/16 5:05 P

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My biggest challenge is seeing a change. I try to exercise more and eat less and I can never see a change so I go back to my old ways.

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6/2/16 12:39 A

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Mine is stress... I am an emotional eater. I soothe myself with food.

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6/1/16 6:58 P

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I am my biggest challenge. I'll do well for a while and then decide I can have a few drinks one night. That then includes snacks. The next day I feel so rotten that I decide to continue eating as if it makes no difference. Then it takes time to get back on track.
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6/1/16 5:51 P

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I do think it is important to control the portion size. Even if you indulge in something you know is loaded with calories, cutting the portion in half or even thirds and spreading it out over two or three days is better than eating it all in one sitting.

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5/31/16 2:00 P

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I have a hard time actually making something healthy. I find it's easier to just run to a fast food place to get something to eat.
Or by the time I come home from work, play with my son, cook, and clean I just don't want to work out. I want to lay in bed and read.

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5/29/16 4:22 P

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Depression is my biggest challenge. It's hard to focus sometimes, and sometimes I just don't care. Sometimes I want to suffocate myself with food.



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5/24/16 1:13 P

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I have recently been experiencing feeling hungry several times a day, especially late in the day. I usually try to fight it but sometimes I feel so hungry I can't resist. Not sure what is going on with me.

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5/19/16 11:01 A

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I've had three kids, so maybe I can speak to this. Sometimes our bodies just stay in "pregancy mode."

Breastfeeding/pumping brought my weight down, but there is a certain amount that does not come off until you are done with that.

Then there is the issue of sleep. My guess is you are not getting enough. And the body does not want to lose weight when you get that sleep deprived. Give yourself permission to nap. Try to get your significant other or family or friends to watch your little one on Saturday afternoons so you can get some significant napping in. Remember a healthy mom is necessary to raise a healthy kid.

Tracking calories, exercise and sleep really is a must to break through. If I don't really track, I will not get the numbers right and I won't see what is causing the problem.

My best advice, keep going. Eventually your body will get the hint and start losing again. Keep tracking. Keep loving that little one. Keep loving yourself!



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5/18/16 6:32 P

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After you have a baby, I think hormones have a lot to do with your weight. Nature is making sure you have adequate nutrients to pass along through breast milk. If you are not breast feeding, I think the hormone process will still make it difficult to loose weight the normal way.

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5/16/16 8:35 A

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Almost everything you describe about losing weight pre-pregnancy to now is me too! Before I got pregnant, I lost almost 80 lbs, with just diet and exercise.

18 months after my son was born, I'm still holding onto around 25ish pounds which I can't budge no matter what! It seems like I'm constantly clinging to an excuse as to why I can't seem to lose anything-- at first it was because I was pumping/breastfeeding, then it was because I wasn't sleeping enough, etc, but one by one I'm eliminating all of those things, and still the weight stays on.

I walk almost everyday, and have been running with the stroller recently (I can run almost 6 miles consecutively). My total miles for the week average 40 to 50, and my active minutes according to my fitbit last week were over 500. What's the deal?? I still can't lose weight. My diet is ok too--I have a desk job and plan/bring all my food for the day.





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5/13/16 3:43 P

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Set yourself up with some healty snacks for the late night such as fruit. If you can combine an activity with your child that will also burn calories, that is a win, win.

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Hey lovely mums,

I managed to lose weight prior to having kids and I did pretty well but now that I have a 17 month old I am finding it a real struggle! I am super tired working full time and taking care of him -he's also been sick loads since he started daycare so I'm up at nights and I always end up turning to chocolate and junk food to keep me going! Plus no time for a gym membership. I'd really like to fit back into some of my old clothes! Anyone else struggling with this?

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