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8/27/20 6:10 P

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Sometimes leaving seems the only option after hanging in there for so long and feeling miserable, yet I often think that being out there on your own can be miserable too. I hope that you have put a lot of time into thinking through the different avenues that you can take. Not many people replied, yet this is an important and life changing topic. My sister went through a really tough time and almost left her husband..had actually decided to leave. At the last minute she changed her mind and put it off, then decided to try to stick it out longer. That was 10 years ago and they are stronger now and happier. I don't know what the right answer for you is..I just hope you can find the happiness that you deserve.



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6/27/20 7:25 A

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Have you tried marriage counseling?



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LUANN_IN_PA Posts: 32,453
4/20/20 9:58 A

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What is your exit plan?

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4/16/20 7:17 P

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Nearly 50 years of trying to be supportive to him, our sons and now me. Feel lazy and impatient to learn skills of adjustment to single life despite successful employment history. I don't hate him. I'm just not able to be his therapist as a co-dependent and emotional eater.

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