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11/13/12 1:06 P

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Hi Zee,
Good to hear that you can share/talk about the past without crying. This means that you are healing and healing takes time, so don't worry, but remember that the more you share\talk the quicker that healing process goes. Find someone ( within or out side the family) who you trust and is comfortable talking to and talk about it. Also remember that forgiveness is also a part of the healing process. Be strong! emoticon .

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11/11/12 6:36 P

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Psalms 126:5 says They that sow in tears shall reap in joy.


Have a Wonderful Week

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HUGS and BLESSINGS!

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11/7/12 3:05 P

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I believe in letting it all out, no matter if it's crying or just screaming. It's actually very healthy. Let all your feelings out as much as you want, we're hear to listen and to help.

I would like to lose at least 25 to 30 pounds by November for my nieces wedding.


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11/7/12 7:31 A

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Dear
there's nothing wrong about crying we need it from time to time other wise we're going to die in heart attack
any way to try to be stronger it's good for you and always remember there's someone care about you and maybe you don't know that they 're here for you

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11/5/12 6:29 P

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Zee - I'm with you there on being able to speak about things without crying. It can become really quite embarrassing in a number of situations, can't it.

Try not to let yourself feel alone, though - you have a whole team here to support you. And you have taken a huge first step by admitting to yourself that you need to be here and to have folk to help. emoticon

Sometimes, alone can be good. But lonely? No, that's never good. And just getting onto SP should remove that feeling, any time!

Take the 4-week challenge here in this team - it can take you 4 weeks or more cos you move onto a new week only when you feel comfortably able to - and you will find a whole host of ideas to help, and loads of people who are happy to share comments.

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Edited by: CMFARRELL36 at: 11/5/2012 (18:30)
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11/5/12 5:19 P

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I am now in the process of talking openly about the past without crying. I am now more open to members of my family. I still feel a little lonely, but am more accepting of it. I actually see the bright side of it.

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