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Weird day and it's not over yet...

Friday, October 08, 2010

I was informed last night that the BIL had invited US to dinner tonight and WE are going... and DH's niece is having a 1st birthday for her daughter Kayla, and WE are dropping off a gift. Hm.

Weird maybe? I don't know where I fit in all this anymore! LOL

I guess we just have to take such things in stride and keep moving, huh...*giggle*
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    Hope you smiled and had a good time. So long as you enjoyed yourself...all should be good. Keep moving along sounds like a good thing.
    3916 days ago
    That is a little awkward... are things 'official' yet? I guess they are used to you BOTH being there... Things will fall into place eventually. Just hang in there!
    3942 days ago
    "Keep moving" are the key words...... emoticon
    3945 days ago
    Hope it all works out for you. I find that the "nod and smile" technique can get you through these situations.
    3945 days ago
    I'm not sure what the issues are here, but in my life, I keep in touch with people. As long as I don't get involved financially or with other people's daily lives/schedules, I rub along okay with people. If someone does something stupid or mean, I just figure they're having a bad day and stay away from them for a few days/weeks or just say hello and leave it at that. In the meantime, I will have a few people to chat with or visit on special occasions, but don't have to argue about petty stuff. Life can be pretty lonely without an occasional chat or hug, even if it is not committed. I tell myself that if I keep in touch, then if my house burned down, maybe someone would give me some clothes or bedding or stuff to start again or vice versa. Besides, if there have been difficulties, maybe someone is trying to smooth things over or maybe even make amends. Good luck.
    3945 days ago
    Now is the time to decide how you want it to be. Good luck making that choice. You are clearly not in an easy place. How will the people treat you?

    Be kind but don't forget to care for yourself.
    3945 days ago
    you know sometimes it's just hard in relationships and certainly you can go years and it not work or it work or it be comfortable or the hand is out in friendship and being there for you..all kinds of things happen because you spent a good part of your adult life nutruing this thing it's ok as apparently according to the relatives you still belong..i have been divorced for 35 years now and my sister -in-law still has dealings with me and it has nothing to do with the ex we are friends and i will take them anywhere i can get them at times lol have a great time my friend (as i know you will) i can hardly wait for nov 17th i will be back there in the 'land of oz..the enerald city' and i am so looking forward to it for sure
    hugs the lady mary
    3945 days ago
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    You didn't have a say in going to dinner or getting the gift. If so, bummer.
    3946 days ago
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