SP Premium
100,000-149,999 SparkPoints 109,435

I am not leaving, I'm just prioritizing my life.

Wednesday, July 20, 2016

I have slowed down writing blogs lately. I have had a number of issues crop up, including pain, and now arthritis, that is hard on me. I will ALWAYS continue to monitor my food, eat right, and exercise, as those are now important components of my life.

A devotion to Spark has now come in second place to taking care of me. They are not mutually exclusive, I know, but logging in, getting Sparkpoints, worrying about that has become of lesser importance to me, and maybe that is as it should be. I got there, I KNOW how to manage things now, and I don't need Spark. I just like it.

I KNOW I will continue to do the things I was taught here, I will continue to be a member of Spark, and I will continue to blog and comment. I just am no longer going to pressure myself to make it something I HAVE to do.

I understand that this is not something everyone will agree with, and I am good with that. I know, from experience, that people don't always agree with me. I have had my share of detractors, and maybe a little bit, that is influencing my decision.

I love Spark for what this site has done for me in the past year. I love how I feel, love my ability to monitor my health, food intake and exercise levels through tracking. I love all the good people I have met through this website. I admire so many of you so much.

I will continue to be a presence, just not a constant one.

Spark on.
Share This Post With Others
Member Comments About This Blog Post
  • no profile photo CD15665102
    Dropping optional things that are a chore is a wonderful thing. It's the way well-balanced grown-ups do things, and I applaud you. We'll be here when you have the desire to check in. No sense making an obligation out of it. Spark on!
    1831 days ago
    You are secure in yourself and your new lifestyle! I totally understand...I think still staying connected is good...but that "have to" isn't something your need for yourself! I understand. I hope your issues work out and I look forward to what blogs you do write!
    1833 days ago
  • SUZYB53
    Jane, you have done so much for the community. We all need to take care of ourselves and your positive presence is still felt. The whole community will be rooting for you.
    1833 days ago
    You always need to be your #1 priority. Sorry to hear about the issues cropping up. I've had some myself. Glad you are doing what you need to do. Keep in touch! emoticon emoticon
    1833 days ago
    So glad you have the tools you need in order to be successful. While we'll miss your frequent, thoughtful blogs, it is MORE important that you do the things that take care of YOU. Know we are here if you need a boost or want to share something wonderful!

    1833 days ago
    1833 days ago
    You have to do whats best for you. I will be looking forward to when you do write your blog. Take care and I hope that you feel better.
    1833 days ago
  • MITCHSTA1232
    Me too! Just take care of you!
    1833 days ago
    Taking good care of yourself should always be priority one! I look forward to seeing you pop in when you can and wish the very best for you!

    1834 days ago
  • PHOENIX1949
    I'm so grateful that I came across you and your wonderful blogs. Take care of yourself and should the spirit move you to post a blog, I will keep you on my subscription list so that I don't miss it.
    1834 days ago
  • no profile photo JEANNETTE59
    I truly understand, there just don't seem to be enough hours in the day and I feel myself reaching the same conclusion. There are only so many hours in the day and I know that I have reached a time and place where I have to stop and smell the roses. And that means reducing my emoticon time. I too will be here, just not as much.

    The most important thing is that you take care of yourself and know that you are very important to me.

    With love,
    1834 days ago
  • no profile photo CD9234910
    I fully understand and this is my attitude with SP too, no matter how much I love it.
    Please take good care of yourself! emoticon
    1834 days ago
    emoticon Take care! We are always here for you! emoticon

    emoticon 7-20-16 "MAY THIS DAY BRING YOU PEACE, TRANQUILITY & HARMONY." Yogi tea. A fun summer day emoticon , Swim emoticon , Walk LUCY emoticon , Sheppard Pilates emoticon , Flash Mob emoticon rehearsal at home & work emoticon ! I'm having a fun active summer emoticon emoticon ! How about you?? emoticon emoticon

    1834 days ago
    Take care of yourself
    1834 days ago
    Yes, part of this journey is putting yourself first. Take care.
    1834 days ago
  • HOLLYM48
    Sending thoughts for healing and living pain free. You are one tough woman and I know you will fight through this and come out on top on the other side. Take good care of yourself. That is the most important thing you can do. Stay strong.
    1834 days ago
    I'm right behind you, my friend! I know that there are other priorities that I need to focus on, and SP will have to take a backseat. But I will be forever grateful for the site that allowed me to reach my goals, teach me to love physical activity, AND introduced me to amazing people like you. Your friendship means a lot to me, and I know that we don't need SP to maintain it!

    Enormous hugs sent your way. XOXOXOXOXOX
    1834 days ago
    Taking care of yourself is your priority. Those of us who suffer from pain daily understand. We are here for you. We will drop by and check on you and pray that your health improves. emoticon
    1834 days ago
    I actually understand what you are doing and agree with you. I am not there yet, I still need the push; but I have learned so much over the last 1 1/2 years and I have already been thinking about when I move on. Not permanently, like you said; but so much time is taken up on Spark. I think one day it will be more important for me to focus on other things - there is so much I want to do. In fact, this morning my husband offered to drive me to Roanoke for a visit with the grandkids. He and my daughter Rachelle have always had a kind of rocky relationship so this is HUGE. I've been looking for hotels that won't break the bank, will be clean and quiet and will take dogs. I think I've got my top choices, now we just have to make sure Rachelle and family will be around.

    I am so sorry you are experiencing pain - and arthritis is not a good thing. Take care of yourself, I know you will!
    1834 days ago
  • FITNIK2020
    I did the same and it was a good idea, regroup.
    1834 days ago
    Take good care of yourself, Jane!
    emoticon emoticon emoticon
    1834 days ago
  • HEDSTS58
    I'm glad you are putting yourself first. I too suffer from arthritis so I understand your pain. Take care of yourself and I'll keep watching for you. Big hugs emoticon emoticon
    1834 days ago
    (((HUGS)))) You're making yourself #1 and that's the right thing to do.
    1834 days ago
  • SA555Y
    I understand its not easy always logging in to spark i struggle with sever pain myself my health isnt good but i try to stay on spark only because i need a support network i am happy for you that you are able to do what you feel you need to do for u
    1834 days ago
  • Add Your Comment to the Blog Post

    Log in to post a comment

    Disclaimer: Weight loss results will vary from person to person. No individual result should be seen as a typical result of following the SparkPeople program.